Children and secondaries

[Stevenjaguar]

Does anyone here have experience with secondaries, or the secondary of your primary, having children with one of the primaries in the relationship?

The subject has come up and I hadn't really thought of it in real terms, so I would appreciate any thoughts about this.

[LovingRadiance]

yes.

My boyfriend and I are the biological parents of the youngest of 4 children in our poly family.

I don't prefer the term secondary-as he is a full-time member of our household and a full member of our family.

The youngest is 5. My oldest is 21. My husbands is 16. Our son is 12.

We're (obviously) poly and we're out-so all of the kids know and they all know whose bio-parents are who. But, they all call me mom and they all call Dh dad.
The baby calls bf by a special name, the other kids call him Uncle-because they did for years before we went poly.