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11-21-2012, 06:37 PM
Does anyone here have experience with secondaries, or the secondary of your primary, having children with one of the primaries in the relationship?
The subject has come up and I hadn't really thought of it in real terms, so I would appreciate any thoughts about this.
11-22-2012, 03:18 AM
My boyfriend and I are the biological parents of the youngest of 4 children in our poly family.
I don't prefer the term secondary-as he is a full-time member of our household and a full member of our family.
The youngest is 5. My oldest is 21. My husbands is 16. Our son is 12.
We're (obviously) poly and we're out-so all of the kids know and they all know whose bio-parents are who. But, they all call me mom and they all call Dh dad.
The baby calls bf by a special name, the other kids call him Uncle-because they did for years before we went poly.