- Trying to Wrap my Head Around This:
- New to the idea... Advice appreciated :)
- Advice on How to Please...
- Changing Feelings
- Forced to make a decision
- Confused
- New and need help.
- Not sure I like being a secondary, is it something I can get better at?
- should i know or not?
- Forum newb, our poly life, looking for a friendly ear.
- Triads, LDRs, Break Ups, and New Relationships
- Frustrated single female
- Not a Triad, But Big Love Just the Same
- And I am off and running, any advice for someone new to this?
- Text Message: "I'm Poly..." WTF?!?!?!
- Acknowledging vs hiding insecurities
- New, excited, and nervous
- So here i am..
- odd dillema?
- Two want poly, how to ask the third.
- mono spouse feelings...
- Broken Heart
- swimming/drowning in triad land
- other girlfriend - boundaries?
- So new to this!!!
- Not wanting contact with potential metamour
- He Cheated with a Potential Third
- Playing favorites with metamours?
- Simply: Girlfriend cheated with BFF, wants V to have us both...
- advice for a newbie?
- My wifes emotional connection with her new man
- Female confused...
- Please help
- What if I don't like my partner's girlfriend?
- Joy and frustration
- Help?
- Wanting a triad, potential third wants it too. Not sure if girlfriend is interested.
- How do you tell a friend when the physical isn't working?
- overreacting maybe...
- Emotional Roller-Coaster
- Wearing your wedding/engagement ring
- managing jealousy in LDR
- Not enough time?
- Question about Kids, Law and Nova Scotia, Canada
- Concerned I've messed things up
- I'm new with lots of questions!
- Ethical/moral dilemma with bf's secondary
- New!
- finding out how
- Am I Polyamorous or Just Juvenilely Craving More Affection?
- Lost and need help.
- Could use some advice...
- Guilt, shame, and pride.
- Fear my new partner might decide he's mono
- Interesting situation - looking for advice
- mono partner not ok with me being poly unless triad
- this is (hopefully)how my poly life starts
- Searching for advice, experience sharing, poly or polyfriendly people, etc
- I think we're on the right track...
- Trying to figure things out
- Looking for advice
- Does desensitizing work for sexual jealousy
- In big trouble now...
- cowboy confessional
- Is this for me?
- Boyfriend's new partner is pretty much the opposite of me in every way
- Am I in a Poly Relationship?
- One Confused Dude!
- How to proceed?
- new and so confused--can't believe i'm posting...
- Reservations About Starting Again
- Anxiety and the "I'm F'd" Feeling
- My first open relationship - advice needed
- Male or female, if you could squish into one sentence, how would it be?
- Kind Of Confused About Myself
- Does acting as if work?
- Wants 2 Be Equal in Polyfidel relationship
- Questions...
- Unique "V" and need advice!!
- scared and upset
- It's a bit sudden.
- I'm confused,
- My Boyfriend Wants to be Monogamous
- My Big Fat Poly Mistakes
- Need a little advice.
- Hi from newbie mono in poly relationship
- Feelings for a friend - romantic or not?
- End of Relationships
- Dealing with guilt.
- Negotiationg boundaries from a "secondary" position?
- Misunderstanding.
- Long lasting...?
- Where to start?
- Really confused right now
- Confused.
- Another Seeking Advice Post ...
- Poly Pregnancy
- Considering V for bi-wife
- new to poly (surprise! ha!) and wondering how to negotiate
- My boyfriends are about to meet for the first time, any advice?
- Amazing relationship
- I Hope I'm Not Naive
- it's ok for her, but not for me....
- Boundary Advice From a Couple of Old-Timers
- Secondary relationships
- I'm delusional!
- A poly newbie with some experience making major mistakes
- The Situation
- Definitions, trust, commitment
- relationships in quad
- The search for clarity
- Newbie needing advice ASAP....
- Head over Heels and a lil scared
- OMG! I just said the "L" word.
- Gay Triad: One partner is kind of closet-y and a friendship of his doesn't help
- My relationship may be opening up, a first for me, advice?
- What should I do, I feel stuck.
- How to deal with feelings of rejection?
- patience is not a virtue anymore
- meeting the bf at her housewarming party
- Jealousy and little things
- Finding out what being Poly is really like
- ugh. Tough stuff.
- How to approach a third?
- age old question
- How to get started with serious dating?
- Everything and everyone is just moving to fast and I don't know how to slow it down
- Dealing With Suspicion
- Feeling numb and destroyed...
- Are tears a sign of love?
- Jealousy? Entitlement?
- Too long alone brings on the FEVER
- Getting burnt out on a lover
- Not sure how to proceed
- Midnight Ramblings - STDs, communication
- sparing feelings....
- I feel... calm? Is that right?
- Trouble in Paradise
- Long Distance Woes
- So, how does it work?
- Kids in a Vee with Female Hinge?
- Boyfriend wants a third
- I’m in a new situation and could use some advice....
- First Poly date
- The Super Awesome Jealousy Thread
- Managing... or so i thought. Now, i dont know what im doing
- Advice needed on setting parameters
- Moving out?
- Giving it a try with a friend who has a mono partner - bad idea?
- Liking a friend - Want to respect them, help?
- Advice Needed
- Poly relationships and your social life
- Feeling like I just got punched in the gut ...
- First fight/disagreement
- New to polyamory
- Coming Out as a Poly to Your Mono Partner
- Recommendations on Handling the Societal Issues
- New and still figuring this out...
- Anti-Tier Relationship Problems with Mono
- Just thinking about this particular metamour freaks me out
- New Triad: Field Notes
- Am I out of line?
- The L-Word
- Newbie - dealing with envy
- Is it worth the risk?
- New Partner
- Attachment in secondary 'ships
- Jealousy
- Deep in his heart am I loved less?
- thoughts on being alone and restlessness
- her him me him her questions
- confused/upset you name it..
- Envy - sex for him but not for me
- More twisty thoughts
- Not a competition, still feels like losing
- Not in a polyamorous relationship, but interested.
- Still confused
- Conquering nervousness?
- please advice...
- Sudden situation, same old problems
- I seem to have ended up in a poly relationship and we're both mono. Advice?
- How do I tell my wife I'm poly?
- An LTR and a childhood friend...help?
- Balancing time and nurturing all
- Jealousy into Compersion?
- New, lost, looking for some guidance.
- New territory in jealousy
- How to deal with emotions?
- My boyfriend is upset, can you overcome jealousy issues?
- Weird because it's not weird...
- Can setting boundaries be unreasonable?
- breaking up
- Confused and honestly a bit scared
- Sudden Arbitrary Boundary
- Am I selfish?
- Fear; advice?
- Finding someone who understands
- Bad at searching, Sorry. Question for triads
- Help or tips to confess our feelings to the girls we like...
- Is it appropriate to ask...
- dealing with breakups
- Interest in my husband
- I feel like I am going down instead of forward.
- Joy and frustration part 2
- Is polyandry less common than multiple wives?
- A few questions from a concerned monogamist husband...
- is it ok to judge people on their past?
- OK, Where is the start button
- Different blowjobs for him and for me
- Dating advice?
- What happens if you meet a unicorn when not expecting it?
- He wants a romantic relationship without the dating part
- New spouse wants sex with Saudi Virgin
- Having trouble adjusting to husband's new girlfriend
- Younger guy?
- "HotWife" paradigm / Avoiding the Cuckold dynamic
- What can I do?
- I dont know if this is the right place but...
- negotiating boundaries/"fairness" and hierarchies
- Possible 3rd Man...
- Boyfriend having trouble coping with emotional *thing*
- Just need to vent - Advice
- Heartbroken and Hopeless
- Advice about talking to Children
- Coming out issue
- needing advice
- Frustrated M/F Couple
- This is one of those "help me, I'm confused" posts
- Coming out Questions
- Many questions
- Frustrations of a PolyNewb
- Finally, this stubborn zombie of a relationship stopped wriggling!
- Newly redefined relationship
- How long do you give a new relationship?
- Name This Relationship
- Can this relationship work?
- Dealing with my wife's feelings of self-entilement???
- Poly? Coverup for Cheating?
- becoming "official"
- Tips on introductions?
- Wonderful new partner but need communication help!
- Gay with Bi boyfriend, advice?
- Dishonesty, and can trust be rebuilt?
- how do you balance the time?
- bonding without the physical
- Novice seeking advice please
- Unrequited love in triads
- Back in an open relationship with just one person
- poly/mono baby steps
- Time alone coping skill suggestions (mono in poly)