- Excited and Nervous
- practically in tears...
- New polyfidelitous, any advice??
- How do I ask my Boyfriend for tri???
- "love outside the box"
- Help, how to make him understand :(
- Im lost and need some help
- Tyler Durden, Polyamory, and Chinese Underground Gangs
- No longer feeling good
- Trying to learn...
- Torn between my heart and my mind
- What to talk about?
- curveballs?...but I don't even like baseball
- Dazed and confused...or jealous?
- Stay and grow, or run for the hills????
- Triple Income Family
- Trying to figure out where to go from here
- wife wants me to drop other woman..just be friends
- How do you cope with jealousy?
- Part-Time Relationships and Communication
- Unwaivering Feelings
- New to polyamory - Did I screw up?
- It seems I have to make a choice
- I hate it!!
- sorting out my thoughts
- I'm in over my head.
- Why can't she just admit she is jealous?
- Finding a separation of feelings
- Broken Triangle...and I Miss Her atTimes
- Looking for Guidance
- I say I'm poly but mono woman wants me anyway
- Tired of being the obstacle
- how much to advertise/boundaries.
- confused
- Newbie...excited but scared at the same time.
- Questions of confusion, polyamory, and unicorns
- Trying to figure out what I want.
- Need Advice on Dealing with Jealousy/Mistrust
- POLY! OMG
- in an open V - hasn't been easy
- learning to communicate
- New - possible quad, complicated, looking for advice
- new to all this..
- Open Communication vs. Trust
- Poly Housing Dilemma
- The other side of the pain barrier
- New to Poly and Looking for Advice
- to Love or to Crush
- How do you know you're poly?
- Not sure if this is for me anymore?!
- Struggling with jealousy
- Boundaries crossed - not sure if I'm okay - how do I respond?
- Hello! Im new, and confused.
- Do I qualify as a unicorn hunter?
- My situation, and an appeal for advice
- Should the relationship between primary/secondary be shared and non-exclusive?
- New help! Need advise...Plz!!
- Monogamous and in love with a poly man
- Can you forgive a cowgirl/homewrecker?
- A Mono walking the POLY journey
- Don't really know what I'm doing...
- Not really new, but sort of? Hah
- Stuck and Confused
- Is there any benefit??
- Now what do I do?
- Fluid bonding mistake
- new and confused
- and so it continues......
- Questions from Newbie
- New to Poly
- What could *possibly* go wrong?
- Poly-Friendly Counseling?
- Young, Married, Dating a Monogamous person - kind of
- Help! Help! Help!!
- I believe my brain is breaking.
- relationship ended
- How do you tell your partner you want to be polly?
- 3rd party only wants to be with my girl
- Trying to be sensitive to/understand my (probably)Mono partner's needs
- Confused and vexxed
- What do I do when my partner shuts me out?
- about fairness
- Looking for advice on open relationship
- In need of advice
- An article I found
- Is it possible to be emotionally poly?
- Just Friends...?
- new to the site bi poly couple
- I'm being confused
- Labels -- I HATE them! Advice?
- In over my head here...
- Hanging out with his other partner / my metamour
- everyone thinks we are doomed...
- Help!!! I'm having some trouble and really need some advice adjusting
- Staving Off Heartache
- Can this really work?
- A letter to my love - Needing space.
- New...ish?
- Need Help/First Loves/Advice Welcome
- Back and worried
- transitioning...
- New and could use some advice please, good or bad
- I never get to sleep with my boyfriend!
- 'Strings attached'
- Mono Poly Thing - Unworkable Situation?
- Metamours: to meet or not to meet?
- Married, and something has come up...
- Whole new set of dating "rules?" Or do the old ones still apply?
- Completely Confused
- The Metaromance
- Not sure if its the right choice for us...
- i have two of questions
- very new
- so confused...need to talk to someone with experience
- Long term bf, new gf things are serious with
- He wants to be poly; I don't
- Newish, confused, seeking advice
- Purgatory
- from a triangle to a V: how?
- What if your partner doesn't know you have a secondary relationship? Is it cheating
- Twenty Something - How do I find other twenty-somethings into or open to poly?
- I want monogamy. He wants polyamory.
- Sad Puppy - Halp!
- New to this, with a couple who is also new to this. Please help.
- The Initial Conversation
- New to this..Feeling a lot of jealousy and confusion over "her"
- Feeling Frustrated and Unloved
- New feelings and unsure what they mean...
- A few questions...
- Help! New to Non-monogamy and Having Trust Issues Now
- Married, in love with her best friend, at a loss ...
- How do you rebuild trust after lying/cheating has taken place?
- Any successful closed triads I could chat with?
- What to expect...
- When/Where to Discuss Being Poly
- Looking For Advice/Thoughts #2
- How to ask her?
- Contemplating polyamory...please help!
- new to polyandry. can anyone help me out
- Still too confused
- Struggling
- New and Confused...
- First Poly Relationship
- Double standard
- Young and Confused-HELP
- I'm not Poly, but he is
- Hurting - Need Some Help
- can only be with a man if I have a woman as well
- Not so much jealousy as feeling like a loser
- First meeting of metamour... Help!
- first serious relationship, NRE, fear of losing; help appreciated
- Where to Start?
- Looking for some direction
- So much love to give, it doesn't fit into one pot
- Moving toward equanimity in a triad - What is your experience?
- Mono in New Poly Relationship with Intimacy Issues?
- Embarking on a rocky journey
- Help and advice appreciated
- How to explain to new 'potential' lovers?
- Lonely Unicorn
- new, confused, and unsure
- Confused, New, Rambling, advice?
- Confused Brisbane boy
- Am I a Unicorn?
- Am i poly?
- compersion and/or self-interest
- New and in need of advice.
- More in love with secondary right now
- Developing independence
- I want my spark back!
- New to this... please read...
- Is my relationship poly? or something else?
- need some advice and help please
- the outsider in an open marriage
- First time butterflies
- New to Poly & feeling nervous about it (long)
- Introducing polyamory to a relationship
- Blending: am I going crazy?
- talking about it
- Rookie with a Problem
- protection and women
- Scare 'em or just be friends?
- my screw ups
- Too perfect?
- In a Fuzzy State of Mind
- Reaching out to his primary when we're both new at this?
- Where do I begin?
- Filling A Gap
- When did you know you weren't monogamous?
- Advice? Tips? Do I leave well-enough alone?
- New to Poly and after some suggestions
- New...learning...listening...
- New approach
- Not enough?
- New to all of this... and struggling...
- poly imposter?
- Poly Family
- am i being irrational?
- Coping with sharing your wife sexually
- Hiding pain
- I am poly, BF and GF new to poly, how do I communicate with them?
- Hard when both relationships are new
- heartbroken and in need of advice/help
- Possibly poly relationship
- where to start
- Uncommon Situation.....I think...
- surprised to find my bf is poly
- Had A Newbie Meltdown this Weekend
- Polyamory and the Bible Belt - Need Resources
- New and Scared
- Boyfriend interested in polyamory...help?
- My therapist says I'm a lesbian
- So... we talked...
- What I Like about Poly
- Concerned about my own intentions and motivation
- Husband crossed boundary and now I'm hurt and don't know what to do
- To be, or not to be...
- questions about a true poly and meeting one
- How to tell
- Dealing with NRE long distance
- Poly dissolving a strong marriage
- Moving in?
- Hard to Explain...
- Kinda stupid question... which book?
- Polyamory and Friendship
- Getting tired of insecurity
- Resources/Advice for Secondaries
- New to Poly, Need some advice so we can all continue loving each other
- New and confused (and tired)
- Poly with two equal partners. For me?
- Poly Double Standard?
- Am I Just Being Jealous???
- Am I poly?
- Failure to follow own advice...
- minimizing hurt in a poly arrangement & other basic qs
- Rambling?
- New and anxious
- I'm so nervous and I could use some advice
- I Think I'm Polyamorous!
- Moving In, "Friends with a History"
- Coming out to parents about new gf
- Resentment post fallout
- BF won't let me go!
- New, scared, and isolated
- So how exactly does this work with the military?
- A poly asked me out.
- New and contemplating polyamory
- Triad Situations I am curious....a million questions
- The scariest and safest thing I've done...
- Looking for LTR with a couple in Canada and I have no idea where to start