- Asking for help when you're already drowning.
- Telling people
- Mono newbie in a mess....
- Depressed--this is long
- Sticky Question, hope you can help
- Total newcomer, need some insight...
- realistic communication. guidance?
- Just thoughts from the experts
- Timing
- Looking for insight
- Two months in, and still struggling
- When should I tell her?
- Haven't broached the poly subject yet...
- Heartbreak: 2 GirlCaleb: 0
- Letting go of my white picket fence
- Another Party of Five!
- Struggling to breath....
- building relationship
- struggling relationship
- a not-poly conundrum
- Do you like knowing what your partner likes about their other partner?
- One leg of the Vee, Round Two
- Not sure where to go from here
- considering married BF
- In a new setting, how can I explain to a potential partner that I am poly?
- Not Feeling the Connectivity
- My heart feels like it expanded...
- poly failure
- New Emotions with a new relationship
- What gives?
- Different kind of newness
- confused
- Stormy Attitude
- Need some advice
- I think I am poly? Please I need help!
- Sexually Frustrated
- I want your attention!! (Communication Issues)
- Is Polyamory right for us?
- confusing breakup
- Communication Advice
- Pregnancy - how to help my primary
- New Love and Possessiveness
- Marriage troubles--suddenly poly is a problem
- And suddenly, everything feels different
- I think we're in the right place?
- Mixed signals...now what?
- Oops. I may have f*@Ked up.
- What happens when rules are broken?
- Not Sure...in Kitchener, Ontario!
- Meeting my husband's gf... help!
- Oops, I think I cock-blocked my only chance for polyamory
- Who thinks of those left at home
- Need advice..new to this
- Thinking about going Poly
- Introducing myself and my situation
- My wife is scared I'll leave
- 1st attempt...total shock...need help.
- Back again...
- Remember me?
- Married couple confused, feeling stuck
- too fast or just right?
- New to the Exploration
- trying to work myself out
- I don't care to listen...
- How to ask...
- Update and Moving On
- Id like some insta-compersion please!
- HELP!!! please...
- New to poly and in need of advice
- Embarrassing problem.
- Our story
- help with my own preconditioned notions
- my jealousy is related to males
- I am heartbroken!
- big decisions!
- Why I am considering polyamory
- Sticky Situation - watching your girlfriend and your boyfriend fight
- New from Chicagoland area, needs advice!
- Sex in a triad... Is every party always present?
- Charting new territory...
- Intimate vs. Friendship
- A long story
- Need Some Advice in California
- waiting to exhale...poly style!!
- unicorn found... maybe..
- Too Fast?
- compromise ideas needed
- This site has helped, but I need a lot more
- Telling a non-poly "date" about myself
- AH so now the problems begin
- Going to poly events/happenings
- Just starting out here....
- Solo poly people - what's your ideal?
- poly virgins
- Here goes nothin....
- Advice...please
- The Needy Partner: Illness and Polyamory
- Breaking the ice
- Help! My husband wants to be poly, but I'm mono.
- Reasonable Boundaries
- Inexpensive Date Ideas
- Facilitating Chemistry Between Them?
- My husband won't agree
- I'm sure a lot of you have been there...
- Is this reasonable?
- Jealousy
- How do you avoid distraction?
- new circumstances
- When SO wants her own....
- Navigating the new waters as mono
- Being a poly male is hard
- New and Confused.
- BF having a baby - thoughts and advice?
- Do I belong here?
- I need ADVICE on telling hubby I'm going to see the new guy...
- Very new
- My partner became very intimate with another friend in a way that it hurts myfeelings
- Triad Relationship/Jealousy: She Can Do That Too?
- Tomorrow could be exciting.
- First meeting jitters
- DADT...I'm poly, he's not.....HALP!
- Sorry, long, but I need support.
- Please Help Me
- The First Broken Heart
- Have you ever given up poly for a mono relationship?
- Could use a little guidance :)
- Advice from my poly peers...
- My story is similar to the some of yours....
- I know its just a garden variety affair, but...
- Feeling sad....disappointed...angry
- Help! I'm struggling as my mono marriage of 20 years is turning poly
- hurting and confused about poly?
- So I need some help...
- coming out of a rut....
- anger at self need advice
- Always a Struggle?
- looking for advice...
- long distance and poly??
- A couple online dating etiquette ?s
- The Many Types of Polyamory
- Limerence toward my wife's sister
- Understanding the psychology of monogamy and poly?
- So NEW and need advice!
- My Reasons For Being Poly
- Is there a name for this arrangement?
- So in love...how can we move foward?
- Poly me, mono him?
- My new guy
- Should I or should I not?
- Paranoia?
- Ouch.....the journey ends.
- emotional deadlock
- confused about a relationship
- Maybe Poly? HELP
- New
- Moving from adultery to polyamory - help!
- Am I turning into a slut or a pig?
- Polyamory approaches? Help!!
- Loving and Understanding ... Part I
- Spilling my guts
- The situation I'm in (love, sex and long term relationship issues..)
- Why does puppy love go away?
- Hello and greetings
- Exploring
- Trouble getting started...
- First Foray... Kinda
- Help... Am I nuts???
- Guilt over boundaries
- Kinda New 2 the Polyamory lifestyle
- One Way Street...
- Husband's girlfriend uncomfortable
- M/m + m
- difference between poly and commitment-phobic??
- needing some advice please
- is this polyamory
- Whose bed?
- the beginnings of a breakup...
- Confused from one day to the next
- I think I'm being targeted as a blue unicorn!
- Need Advice...sorry but I have no one else :(
- not sure what to do
- Did I handle the situation right?
- is this about poly?
- Am I being too hasty?
- some questions about jumping into things
- What do You call family members
- Alpha... by Accident
- Advice: my monogamous partner and polyamorous me
- Lonely and panicky--when does it get easier?
- Propositioning
- New and Confused
- FNG with questions
- I crossed a boundary. What do I do now?
- new guy needs help with theory vs practice
- Advice: her mono boyfriend
- >_<
- New People Always Say The Same Thing, Don't We?
- Willingness and Conflicted Emotion
- Boyfriend abhors the idea, can't understand
- New and looking for all kinds of advice!
- making rules?
- can't stand it anymore,confused
- Resenting the Wife
- Care and Feeding of Friends with Benefits
- primary status rejected
- sex and its status
- New and shakey - Night one with the new GF
- Partner's going away for the first time with someone
- Making full circles
- Does she really want a triad??
- When the hottest thing ever is the worst idea ever
- Triad... ????
- ...And suddenly everything became complicated.
- Kissing girls, lies, and friends with benefits
- Opinions please
- What do i do now?
- Adjusting to a new change
- How do I tell her?
- Advice needed?
- Uncertain about Poly
- How to....
- A Beautiful Path
- Polyamorous love triangle
- A Bump in the Road or a Bad Sign?
- New & confused.
- New and curious
- Love for Male Friends, or, Why My Heart Hurts
- Help with my Girlfriend
- Sex drive, love & confusion
- Settling in, and working it out. (very long...sorry)
- Practical questions...
- So... what do we do now? (long, our apologies)
- Are we on the right track?
- First Timers
- My husband is in NRE
- Transitioning into a triad
- new to polyrelationship
- New to all this and need advice
- Is it polyamory?
- Accidental poly vee...
- Balance btw Knowing Your Needs and Letting Things Evolve Naturally
- Need Some Advice...
- Need help explaining Sex with one is not better than the other
- In a relationship with a poly-amorous girl. Need some input.
- Advice from others needed
- Don't know what to do w/her
- Nice little trainwreck so far
- Considering Poly, any advise?
- I don't how to do this
- Husband of 10 years is Poly-Just Found Out